Frequently Asked Questions
1. What can we do during the session?
My goal is to create a safe place to facilitate our mutual kinks. Both you, and I, have limits that need to be respected with care. If you have experience or trauma related to kink, please let me know ahead of time.
2. What is a Session like?
During our first session we will go over your intake form together. I will check how you are feeling day of--sometimes limits change due to how your day has gone. We set a safeword and go over any signs that may be important.Together we will go through all toys we both have brought day of to see which ones we are both comfortable using.When we begin the session, it is a journey of the kinks we have discussed. Sometimes we cannot get to every kink we agree on. I will prioritize the kinks you are most excited to get into day of.I leave plenty of time for us to engage in aftercare, a time to relax and wind down from the glow of the session. Mistress will consistently check in on your comfort the entire session.
3. How can I prepare for my Session?
Drink plenty of water.Please eat before you see me, unless we have plans to share a meal.Pack comfortable clothes or anything you feel your most submissive in.If we are planning on pegging, please consider taking an enema during the day. Clean out this way is uncomfortable but will empty your bowels so we won't have accidents. Although, accidents do happen. It is very human, no stress.Ask Mistress plenty of questions.Communication is key, before, during, and after the session. You always have power when we session.
4. Do I have to screen?
Yes. This is for my safety long term. Everyone is required to screen, even those who have known me from other walks of life. When you wish to engage in a femdom session, you will be required to send me photos of your ID, a selfie, and sometimes your social media accounts. This can give me a better understanding of who you are.
5. What happens if I choose to film with Mistress?
I always adjust to ensure you get a quality session AND film time. We will film part of the session, whatever we are both comfortable with. You can remain anonymous or be tagged. Every submissive filmed will have access to the unedited and edited versions of the content we create. Happy to take photos for your own collection as well.In order for me to sell the videos we create, a 2257 adult model release will be required when filming. This is a standard release, you will find many like it with a simple google search. I do not add in any self serving wording to this contract, I use a very basic release for this reason.
6. Can I reschedule?
Yes. I encourage rescheduling rather than a hard cancellation. Life happens. Mistakes happen. Sometimes we think we are available and we are not. If you feel sick for any reason, please consider rescheduling.
7. Can I say NO?
PLEASE DO. If you no longer want to do something or do not like any gear I bring, express your boundary. Please give me that communication. I will do the same. I have the right to say NO.
8. Can I host the session?
I like to provide the location for our session but in some cases I am comfortable meeting you at a hotel or dungeon of your choice. I like to use a neutral location to get us both in the right headspace. I will NOT come to your home. However, I will have my own dungeon in Florida soon.
9. Does Mistress allow subs to cum?
Cum control is one of my favorite kinks. Whether we have planned a denial session or milking, I want to make sure you have no orgasms to think about. Mistress wants to milk every last drop. Often back to back to back.
10. Can I bring things to the session?
You are encouraged to bring a gift or tip for Mistress. Please consider packing any toys, tools, cages, and wardrobe that helps put you in sub space. I will bring plenty of gear but it is always nice to have more options.
11. Can I pay through service?
Service roles are reserved for submissives who have scheduled sessions with me to build a rapport. It is important to lay down the groundwork in the dynamic.